Webfind: Very heavy Restraints....

One of the intrestings parts to be a mistress in Second Life is that you have an isight in very different fetishes and desires, when you look way back, you will notice that someone has made me aware about the combination of the islamic way to dress together with bondage, very tight bondage.

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Some interesting article about corsetting

Just a short hint for some interesting article about corsetting on some of the blogs you see on the left. Maybe a bit bit more for the beginners, with some starting information.

Have look at: Corseting for Your Needs, Part I: How to Choose the Right Corset for Any Occasion at Lingerie Addict.

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Waist Training in Real

 Found on the web somewhere...some helpfull tips for the sucessfull waist training:

Corset Waist Training Tips 

1. Wear an undershirt (cotton) or corset liner under the corset. 2. Moisturize the skin and make sure there are no dry spots. Red skin is a sign of dry skin.
3. After putting the corset on, pull the laces snug, not tight and straighten out the shirt or tube underneath. Reach behind you and run your fingers under the eyelet edges and lift the corset away from the skin a bit, while straightening the shirt or tube with the other hand. Settle the corset again, twist and bend and snug up the laces.
4. Hook the laces around a doorknob or hook, walk forward until taut and even out the left and right laces, working any uneveness towards the top. Then tighten by pulling the lace crosses bottom to center, center to top with the excess on top evening the two laces out, and then pull the crosses top to center again.
5. Keep the two sides evenly spaced top to bottom, and avoid a bulging gap at waist.
6. Make several tours or runs when lacing, only take 1/2? at a time and resettle.
7. Once it gets tighter, pause and relax. Walk around and after 10-15min, undo the laces, relax the laces just a little, resettle and go again. After another two or three tours the corset will be on much tighter than before. Repeat this after another 20min or so. If you plan to tight lace, allow an hour, unless you are already wearing it 23/7, in which case you can probably go a little faster. For a special night out, an hour is a good number if you plan to wear it very tight. It will be much more comfortable.
8. Take your time when getting into your corset! If you don’t have time, start earlier!
9. For figure training, the duration in the corset is much more important than the degree of tightness. In fact if you cannot keep yourself from lacing in to your tolerance limit, then relax it by 1/2? or so once you are “done”, just so you can enjoy it, rather than feeling you are in a fight with your corset.
10. Don’t eat large meals before or during! No fatty foods, lots of water, fruits and vegetables and fiber. The corset will keep your stomach small and you will not have trouble losing or maintaining weight. In the end you will likely be healthier and more energetic.
11. Exercise daily. Work the back and stomach muscles, but don’t tone the sides as these may “fight” the corset. For an hourglass shape you want your sides to “cave in” as much as possible. For good cardiovascular health, walking is excellent and you do this can while tight-laced if you like. Watch the breathing. If it becomes labored, slow down to match your pace to your breathing capacity.
12. Wear your corset as often and as long as possible. Sleeping in the corset allows the body to adapt faster and settle into the corseted shape. Usually the corset is relaxed by one or two inches especially if your daytime reduction is greater than four inches.
13. Proportion is far more important than absolute smallest dimensions: A slender 31-22-32? Bust/Waist/Hip would be corseted to 31-20-32?, but would be less dramatic than a 38-28-40? laced to 38-22-40?.
Things Not to Do
1. If tightlacing or long term wear is intended, don’t wear the corset directly on the skin.
2. When a spot continues to itch, don’t “sit it through”, but take it off and oil the skin.
3. After putting the corset on, don’t just start pulling the laces at the waist, it may damage the corset (tear out eyelets) and it may bulge and pinch the skin in back.
4. When putting the laces around the doorknob, do not “run away” or let your full weight pull the laces! This will damage the corset and it will not be comfortable! If it only took 5 minutes to take in five or six inches, you probably went too fast!
5. Don’t pinch the top and bottom and allow a bulge at the waist! This will curve the stays in back and spoil the corset line. It should be hollow in the back. In general the back should curve more inward than the front, but usually less so than the sides.If the top and bottom close and you can’t get the waist to close no matter what, the corset waist size is too small, and you’ll have to train down your waist first and leave some gap at the top and bottom.
6. Don’t pull it in all at once and tie it off. It’s not going to be anywhere near as tight as it can be and it may wear out the corset faster due to uneven pressure.
7. Don’t lace to the point of discomfort and then stop, slow down when you feel it is getting close and enjoy it. If you are in a hurry, aim for less reduction. Even if you have been able to lace down to a certain size, don’t assume that you can always lace down to that size, unless you have been consistently wearing the corset. After a few days off, you have to re-train some to regain the lost ground, before getting down to your smallest size again.
8. If it does not go down to size, don’t force it, choose different clothing, something that’s less dependent on the corseted size.
9. Don’t think that by over tightening you can speed up the training. You may in stead get your body to put up a revolt and produce aches and pains. A corset can and will improve your shape in a healthy manner, but only if sufficient time is allowed for.
10. Don’t eat a big meal and then start tightlacing. No fatty foods, avoid carbonated drinks, mint, tea, coffee, spicy foods may irritate the spincter, and cause acid reflux.
11. Don’t do heavy exercise while tight-laced. Moderate it if you plan to work out while tight-laced. When very tight, your breathing capacity may be reduced, and you need to allow for more frequent but shallower breaths. Walking, hiking, muscle training are not an issue, but running is probably not a good idea. If you plan to do so, just leave the corset off.
12. Don’t tight lace just for a few hours a day. If you only plan to occasionally wear it, moderate the reduction, probably two or three inches, four inches max.
13. The smallest waist does not necessarily give the best figure. Shape and proportion are the most important.

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More era dresses

One more website that offers a nice view to dresses from the past. Inspring Dresses covers Victorian back to Rococo-Times with stunning creations of dresses. So when you are interested in style have a look there.

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Theory: Discipline - Preparing for Punishment

Some weeks ago i posted a part of an essay from this website - as such sites can disapear, i will take the opportunity to give you an insight in another essay, that deals with one possible prepartion for any punishment situation. Again this is written from the Male -> Female Perspective, but is also valid more or less in Femdom Relationships. The complete article and more you will find here. The essay must not reflect my thoughts completly, but is still interesting...

It is a general misconception to believe that the man’s role during the
woman’s punishment is active whilst the woman’s is passive. Both men
and women do have very different roles when preparing for the woman’s
punishment. On the face of it, the man does indeed take a more active
stance. He has to choose the correct implement, plan the severity and
duration, remember to adequately scold his woman, plan the best
possible position for her specific offence and plan to spank her
sufficiently through and beyond her tears. The woman on the other hand
appears to take a more passive role. Her role is to yield to her man’s
discipline and surrender herself over to his correction. This is, however,
where the misconception begins. Many women tend to think that the
punishment process is nothing to do with them directly. They believe
that planning and overseeing that their punishment is successful is their
HOH's responsibility and that it is their job to just “go with the flow.” It
is, after all, their HOH who decides the punishment and the HOH who
carries it out – all the woman has to ensure is that she is on the
receiving end. This is in fact where a lot of problems occur. Common
problems such as the inability to cry and the inability to feel full
remorse and learn from their mistakes are mainly due to women not
preparing themselves sufficiently, not their HOH’s inability to punish
them effectively.
This essay will carefully examine different commonly used techniques
that women can use to ensure a successful punishment. Although the
techniques are nothing new and are all standard LDD practises, it is
nevertheless important to point out that if these techniques are
practised cumulatively, then these common female problems can be
overcome. It is essential for the woman to prepare herself for
punishment. Without correct preparation she will never experience the
full benefit from her discipline.
The article will be broken down into three sections, namely, a
submissive woman’s duty “Before” “During” and “After” punishment.


A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN’S DUTY BEFORE PUNISHMENT
 
Apologizing
Just as soon as the woman is told of her impending discipline, she should
start the process off with a heart felt apology. This apology is not some
sort of decoy to try and escape from or soften the blows of her
spanking; rather it is one of the first verbal affirmations, to show her
HOH that she is ready for her discipline. It shows that she has taken
responsibility for her actions and is in an accepting frame of mind and
heart to receive the corrective measures needed to modify her
behaviour.
If the woman has not taken accountability for her behaviour and feels no
genuine apology, then it is up to her HOH on what action to take. Some
HOH’s will wait and watch their women closely to see when they have
had a change of heart. This waiting time allows their woman sufficient
time to feel remorse by realising the graveness of their offence. Once
the woman comes to her senses and apologises to her HOH, her
punishment then resumes as normal. Other HOH’s, however, consider
that the woman’s denial needs immediate punishment (or additional
punishments). That swift and rapid action is necessary to put the woman
into a more receptive frame of mind. If the woman is prone to
stubbornly denying her wrong doing, then it is probably more beneficial
to consider a more rapid approach with additional discipline.

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Corner Time
Corner Time is possibly the most important time for women to prepare
for their spanking. It is a woman’s duty to take full advantage of Corner
Time and use this time effectively. Corner Time is not simply a break
from the spanking (if it is used in the middle of her punishment). It is
not the time for the woman to check her watch or mentally start
preparing the evening meal. Rather, it is an extremely useful time to
reflect over her misbehaviour and mentally prepare herself for the
ordeal of her discipline. Effective preparation during Corner Time can
usually produce a successful punishment, where the woman is
compliantly brought to tears without any resistance to the discipline. It
is in the woman’s interest to mentally prepare for the severity of her
discipline. It is certainly going to be painful and her duty as a submissive
woman is to endure the pain by obediently maintaining her position.
Some women are very frightened before their punishment. Although fear
can be a good thing, too much fear can make her skittish and jumpy
which will more than likely take her out of position during her spanking.
If the woman suffers unduly with fear she should take the opportunity
during Corner Time to relax and take deep breaths. She should confirm
to herself that no lasting damage will be done, that her bottom can
endure even the most severe blows. She should confirm to herself that
she trusts her HOH. That whatever implement he uses, she is safe in the
hands of the man who loves her more than anyone else in the world.

Honesty
If the woman is guilty of committing an offence, she should
communicate this immediately. If she is too frightened to face her HOH,
she should journal her misconduct for her HOH to read at a later date.
Not owning up to a misbehaviour is very detrimental since she mentally
absolves herself from that specific wrong doing. It allows the woman to
carry on regardless, thinking that her behaviour is more or less OK. If
the woman is not honest about all her offences, then there is little
surprise if she doesn’t feel completely remorseful and responsible for
the ones she does own up to. There is little surprise that she cannot
release her tears and truly experience the effectiveness of each and
every punishment.

Responsibility
Some women think that if their HOH forgets about a punishment that
they are somehow “let off the hook.” This kind of thinking is very
negative. Loving Domestic Discipline is a two way process, it is actually
the woman’s responsibility to respectfully remind her HOH about her
punishment. However, caution should be taken to be extra respectful
whilst she is reminding her HOH - since she is migrating into his
territory. Some HOH’s may feel undermined about the woman’s
reminder and feel that their authority is challenged. If the woman’s
HOH does not take kindly to being reminded, the woman should journal
an entry stating that no punishment took place. She should also enter
her feelings about it. If she was relieved she should say so, or if she was
upset that she had needed the punishment to unburden her and bring
her forward as a better person, then that is what she should write. She
should remember to write honestly and not just say what she thinks her
HOH wants to hear. Writing a truthful account of her feelings will serve
as a useful landmark in evaluating how much her thoughts and actions
have improved over time and how much she has grown as a woman.
If the woman feels frustrated about her man’s forgetfulness and knows
he won’t take too kindly to a reminder, she should take responsibility
over her frustration. She should go for a run or long walk and try to vent
off some of this frustration. Picking an argument in the hopes that he
may spank her, is just childish. Bratting should never be engaged in, no
matter how much the woman is in need of her spanking. At the other
end of the scale, it is also very childish for the woman to refuse
punishment by making up some lame excuse of having a bad migraine or
period pain. If the woman is irresponsible and inclined to such deception
then the discerning HOH should deal with these issues under a separate
punishment.
It is the woman’s responsibility to come when called and promptly start
preparing herself for punishment. Stalling the disciplinary process by
procrastinating or being unduly slow should also be dealt with severely.
Anything that hinders the flow of correction is both detrimental to the
woman and a waste of her HOH’s time. The woman should not be at all
surprised if she does not truly benefit from her discipline if 99% of the
time she is fighting her punishment each step of the way.

A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN’S DUTY DURING PUNISHMENT

Remaining Silent
During the woman’s spanking there should not be any verbal
communication with her HOH, unless he directly asks her a question, or
requires her to count out each impending stroke. If the woman
genuinely feels nauseous, dizzy or ill, then that is the only time she
should respectfully communicate this to him. Her spanking is not a time
to exercise her vocals and scream at the top of her voice, nor is it a
time to yell or plead for her spanking to stop. The preparation time
before her punishment, should have placed her in a more accepting
frame of mind to welcome the spanking as a much needed tonic,which
will help her grow as a woman. Yelling or pleading for her punishment to
stop is not helping her benefit from her punishment. By submissively
accepting her spanking and meekly complying, she will be more
receptive to her own emotions and will not fight her surrender to
catharsis.
Holding Position
There is no doubt that the woman’s spanking will hurt. There is no
doubt that a punishment spanking is meant to be an unpleasant
experience. Discipline is meant to hurt. If it was a pleasant experience
then it would have no effect punitively and there would be a danger of
the woman misbehaving on purpose. Holding position without kicking,
clenching, pushing up, twisting from side to side or blocking is possibly
one of the most difficult challenges for the woman. The woman must
work on submissively yielding to her swats without coming out of
position. Coming out of position not only makes her HOH’s job harder,
but it is also cheating the woman out of an effective punishment. If all
her energy is concentrated on rebelling then she won’t be in a
submissive frame of mind necessary for catharsis. By compliantly
maintaining her position she will discover the very profound depth of
her femininity and submission. As soon as she stops fighting her spanking
she will find herself rewarded by becoming so much calmer and in tune
with the whole disciplinary process. Her contrition and remorse will
bring her deeper into accepting her punishment rather than rebelling
against it. Once her mind becomes more focused on her misbehaviour
rather than rebellion, she will find herself entering a new awareness
where her complete obedience during discipline results in her deep
cathartic surrender.
Accepting Each Discipline Graciously
Even if the woman is implicated in an offence she did not commit she
should nevertheless prepare for her punishment in the same way
regardless. If she has committed no offence she will still benefit from
her punishment. She can use it as a practise session to work on her
obedience and submission. For many women this seems unduly harsh if
not unfair, but the alternative to this by refusing discipline would
seriously undermine her man’s masculinity. It is the woman’s duty as a
submissive woman to constantly uphold her man’s authority. It is not
easy being a HOH, the woman’s job is to obey and comply - such
obedience from the woman strengthens her HOH’s leadership and
resolve.
Accepting an unjust punishment is possibly one of the most difficult
tasks for a woman. However, accepting her punishment when it was not
her fault does have far greater rewards. By graciously yielding herself to
an offence she did not commit enhances the epitome of her femininity
and submission. After some time has elapsed she should of course tell
her HOH that it wasn’t her fault. Her HOH at this point may feel
terrible; it would be up to the woman to put his mind at rest by telling
him how much the discipline had helped her with her submission. This
also greatly rewards the woman since the HOH will think her submission
and obedience to him as quite exemplary.
Naturally, if the woman has a chance before the unjust discipline to
respectfully communicate to her HOH that she is innocent then she
should of course do so. But a situation may present itself where the HOH
is very angry and wants to take immediate action. The woman should
naturally, never communicate her innocence before her spanking in such
a situation, since it may end up in a battle of wills. Such refusal would
tarnish her submission and undermine her man’s role as HOH. The
woman’s duty is to uphold her man and lovingly support him in his role.

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Keep your feet up

Today something different :) - but not for the ones that follow this blog longer, this picture has some very nice grace....perfect posture that is controlled...

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Girdle Glory - The Victorian Maid

Just stumbled about some interesting video in the net, have a look if you like an not quite authentic dressing scene, of course.

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A must have in RL

While looking through some fasion websites today i discoverd a real RealLife must-have! This stockings look absolute stunning, notice the neat sensual wording that spells out a tantalising message at the seam - which give this classic vintage style a special kick. You get these stockings at Agent Provocateur 

A new twist on our traditional French seam and heel hosiery you get with the "Whip me Stockings" - maybe the most expensive hoisery i have in my closet - for some special occassions.

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Webfind: Stunning Edwardian

While traveling the web today i stumbled over this stunning picture. It has such a quality nearly looks like for nowadays. Besides the dress is stunning itself of course.

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Perfect blonde bimbo Lady

 

Found today...the prefect lady...maybe she is a bit bimbo but who dont like that...have a look at her style thats mine to adore and like to be perfect as her...

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Vintage Bondage?

Want to explore more of vintage/retro bondage things, some visual impression are here.

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Webfind: Ready for the beach

Its getting hot, its summer. So time to go the beach. This stunning swimsuit looks perfect for a nice time at the pool. Just wondering if i should not try to get such one in reallife. It looks so stunning compared to the fashionable nowadays...

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Again something for the weekend

Nearly forget some entertainment for this weekend....what a lovely dress...and all other accesiours match perfect....

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A bit more on the history of unmentionables

I do a bit of more research on the history of underwear today. And i found this short but interesting artictle that gives an overview of the history of unmentionables in the 1950s and 1960s. Read it here...

What i learned also is that the pantyhose is an invention of the late 1950s but was brought to the market in the 1960s. So Ladys of the 50's only girdles, garter-belts and stockings are allowed.

Wikepedia knows about this topic:

<sup>In 1953, Allen Gant, Sr., of Glen Raven Knitting Mills developed a commercial equivalent to these hose that he named "Panti-Legs", but these were not brought to the open market until about 1959. During this time, Ernest G. Rice invented his own design for pantyhose (similar to those worn today), and in 1956 he submitted a patent titled "Combination Stockings and Panty".This design was adopted by other makers, and this caused disputes in American courts for many years before the patent was upheld some time after Rice's own death.

Up until this time, there was little reason for women outside of show business to wear "panty hose". However, during the 1960s, improved textile manufacturing processes made them cheaper, spandex (or elastane) made them more comfortable, and the miniskirt made them a necessity to many women. In 1970, American sales of pantyhose exceeded stockings for the first time, and it has remained this way ever since then.</sup>

 Here is the complete entry.


 

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Real-Life Historic Corsets

While vistiting the web i have found another worth to visit webpage, that gives a good overview of different fashion and corset styles from the 19th and early 20th century: www.corsetsandcrinolines.com

Especially, the so called S-Bend Corsets, one of my favourite corsetform, on the page are worth to look at. And if you are rich you are even able to buy an orginial period cosume or corset.

Have a look and fun!

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Vintage inspired dresses in RL

Christmas is not so far away anymore and i was looking arround for some vintage clothes in RealLife. Just want to share a nice shoplink with you with is may worth to look at if you are interested to get some vintage inspired dresses and more: Topvintage Retro Botique

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Brace Stories

In the last days i discovered  a website dedicated to braces,facebow,headgear,activator,powerchain and other orthodontic appliances and the stories of those who wear them. Besides some few stories that are also know from other places, there were some new and unknown to me the website author collected over the times. If you are interested in this type of fetish - have a look at Braces Stories.

SL wise a short reminder, that there is also small (That may change over time) called Brace addicted that you can join for exchange withother ones in Second Live about this interest.

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Some spanking theory

I found some interesting more theoretically articles of spanking treatment in the web. Maybe that theories are also interesting for you and before they disapear somewhere...here some exceperts. The main theory is a bit male als domme and female as the reciver of the spanking, but is surely also in some areas true for other relationships. Not all points of this thoughts must be my meaning, but still an intersting arcticle to think about.

The complete articles can be found here....

Humiliating the inner child

When humiliating the inner child it is essential to psychologically bring
the woman down to a child-like state. Once the woman is in a child-like
state, emotionally speaking, she will readily respond to disciplinary
procedures. Such procedures are generally aimed at disciplining young
children. Both standard LDD and advanced techniques can be used to
great effect. The added bonus with using ALDD techniques is that the
advanced nature of the disciplines has a much more profound and
humiliating effect. If the woman’s HOH finds the LDD methods not
significantly humiliating, then he would be best advised to try the
advanced disciplinary methods. Advanced LDD techniques correspond to
the needs of both the inner child and inner slut.

Humiliation through scolding is essential to break through the adult
woman’s defences and tap into her inner child before her punishment.
Phrases like “You bad, bad girl, having a tantrum like that!” “You
naughty girl” “Come here young lady!” “If you are going to act like a
two year old then you will be treated as one!” “You bring your naughty
bottom to me for a spanking now!!” Or more emotive/ disappointed
type scolding, “Where has my good little girl gone?” 





Sometimes the HOH will sit her firmly on his knee to scold her. He will
use a condescending tone used for small children so that she can
effectively feel that she is in a vulnerable child-like state, thus, feel his
“adult” authority over her. Young children do not tend to have much of
an attention span; therefore, by holding her chin throughout her telling
off, forces her to have direct eye contact with her HOH, this triggers her
inner child instincts which serves her in her humiliation.

Corner time is very humiliating and child-like. Being made to stand in
the corner with her nose directly touching the wall is humiliating.
Corner time type of punishments can also be highly effective if used in a
more public area. For example, if she misbehaves in a crowded
supermarket her HOH could quietly stand her in a corner of the
supermarket for a short period of time. Any passers-by would just think
she is taking a long time to assess the quality of the tomatoes! This is
effective, however, since no one but the woman and HOH know that she
is being disciplined. The crowded public space adds wonders to her
increased humiliation.

Bed time as a punishment can be very humiliating, especially if it is
early enough (daylight outside) and she is put to bed for the night. Her
humiliation will naturally increase if she is put to bed before her own
children’s normal bed time. Naturally, her children need not know the
reasons for her going to bed before they do. They can just be told that
“Mummy isn’t feeling too well,” which (with a freshly spanked bottom)
wouldn’t really be too far from the truth! In order to properly access the
inner child it is essential for her HOH to actually put her to bed rather
than send her to bed. If he undresses her, gets her ready for bed and
supervises her going to the toilet and bathing/ brushing her teeth, this
will increase her humiliation.

Naturally, combining non-spanking disciplines with a soundly spanked
bottom can do wonders to increase the woman’s levels of humiliation
and improve the effectiveness of the discipline.

When positioning the woman for an inner child spanking it is important
to use positions generally aimed at naughty children. OTK (over the
knee) is very important it feels personally connected, vulnerable and
child like. Alternatives to this are being spanked in the nappy changing
position. Such a position can be deeply humiliating since it exposes a
woman’s private parts. This position may trigger feelings of helplessness
as experienced by very young children having their nappy changed. Or
(depending on her weight and size) being tucked under her HOH’s arm
and being spanked standing up. If she is really small in comparison to
her HOH and her HOH is strong enough, she can also be hoisted off the
floor in such a position. All the HOH has to do is firmly grip hold around
the back of her waist and lift her, so that her bottom is parallel with the
rest of her body. One of the major benefits of such a punishment is that
the elevation and feeling of suspension dramatically adds to the
woman’s vulnerability of size compared to her HOH’s. This then adds to
the woman’s increased humiliation which has directly accessed her inner
child.

Having her panties slowly and firmly pulled down by her HOH, before
her spanking, is both humbling and humiliating. Likewise, having her
panties pulled back up after her spanking and having her clothes tucked
back into her jeans, whilst she is firmly reminded to behave, also adds
significantly to the humiliation process. If she is wearing a dress or skirt,
it would be more humiliating for the woman if her HOH were to bare her
bottom after she has been placed over his knee - simply because it
keeps the woman in suspense. Although deep down she knows that each
and every spanking is indeed on her bare bottom, allowing for
anticipation is very important. Once in a vulnerable position over the
knee, the sensation of having her dress or skirt lifted and panties pulled
down to her knees or beyond, is very humiliating. If the woman is
wearing trousers or jeans, then naturally her HOH will have to pull down
her jeans and panties whilst she stands in front him, prior to being
placed over the knee. Whilst her HOH is undressing her, he should force
eye contact with her and look at her sternly and reprimand her, prior to
her spanking.

Such a simple action, such as pulling down a naughty woman’s panties
and back up after punishment is very effective. Many women actually
find that this very simple act greatly increases their humiliation.
Sometimes even the most simplest action can increase a woman's
humiliation which help trigger memories of their childhood, thus access
her inner child.

Spanking with the hand is very important. The personal connection in a
hand spanking is crucial for the inner child, the sense of touch is
essential. The HOH is taking the woman back to what it felt like to be
disciplined as a small child. He is taking her back to what it feels like to
be a little girl again. Being reassured like a little girl by having her hand
held through out her spanking, plus comforting her using a soft tone of
voice, as if to reassure a terrified child, are all important elements of
triggering the emotions inside her inner child.

The actual severity of the spanking is not really the issue here. An inner
child spanking is more to do with accessing deep rooted emotions which
helps the woman reconnect with her feminine psyche at a much deeper
and profound level. A spanking of medium force which goes on for about
an hour or more is ideal for tapping into the emotions of the inner child.

If the woman finds it difficult to cry then sometimes connecting with
past childhood artefacts such as a teddy can release immediate tears.
Just the sight and smell of her teddy can immediately remind her of her
childhood. Some women find that taking their teddy with them over
their HOH’s knee will induce the onset of tears fairly rapidly. It is
amazing how powerful the senses can be. The sense of smell (of smelling
that old familiar smell associated with her childhood) can regress the
woman right back into feeling some of those powerful emotions she
once felt as a child. This is also why a number of women feel that a loud
spanking is more effective than a quiet one. In this case the sense of
sound (hearing her actual spanking) can instil a greater fear into her, as
opposed to an implement which doesn’t emit much sound at all.

Usually after punishing the woman via her inner child, she will feel very
emotional and vulnerable. Sufficient aftercare is essential. Even if the
spanking wasn’t very hard or severe, emotionally the woman may have
been taken to a very frightening place. Some women may have built
very strong defences around their femininities; this may have been the
first time that they felt connection with their inner child and
rediscovered their femininity. If the woman cries for the first time this
is a great bonus. Crying after an inner child spanking can render the
woman very fragile and clingy to her HOH. She may need to cling to him
and cry for a long time. During this time her HOH can hold her, caress
her and lovingly reassure her. Whilst being lovingly held on his lap he
can wrap her up in a blanket and continue holding her until she falls
asleep in his arms.

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Well behaving Sissies are not a modern thing....

...just from the web have a look at this interesting vintage picture :)

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Vintage Bondage

Today a nice webfind again. Some bondage from maybe the 50s. I love the shoes :)

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